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The Trip

Begin at the Beginning

by Agnes on October 1, 2010

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“Begin at the beginning and go on till you come to the end: then stop.”
- The King in ‘Alice in Wonderland’

Last Daily Blog

Last Daily Blog

Dear Friends,

“End” in the above quote, for me, means not driving — not completing my trip by car. ‘My plan’ was to begin my drive home to California right off route 81 in Pittston, PA. September 28 celebrated eight months on the ‘road’ leaving four months for my ride home to California.

This wonderful adventure called ‘LIFE’ is having me continue my journey into another arena instead of the open roads. “In the book of life, the answers aren’t in the back.” -Charles Schulz

Last Sunday, I experienced a TIA commonly known as a ‘mini’ stroke. On my personal journey side, this means wake up and really ‘listen’. Believe me, I was not this philosophical in my motel room as I awaited the ambulance and laid in the emergency room! My brother was with me when it happened. Last night I arrived back here in my room in the motel after five days in the hospital. All is well!

In the spirit of openness, before my TIA experience I had already decided not to drive home as I was experiencing problems in my left hand and basically could not use it.

Since I will not be traveling by car to share with you the people I meet in towns and cities as well as reports on family homelessness, I will end my daily blog now. To help me document this journey, I will write a brief monthly blog — in November, December and January — this is October’s blog. I have no plans other than to take a long pause, vegetate, read, be quiet on the inside and be open to where life brings me as I do know I still have music in me.

Living in the present moment: I have to highlight the generosity and kindness and smartness of those who made this surprise in my life bearable these days: Holiday Inn Express in Wilkes-Barre – Scranton Airport – the young woman who called the ambulance, the manager who has made me feel comfortable in extending my time; – to Geisinger Heart Hospital – the personal care by James Hara, MD and his team and all the health professionals who have jumped start me to recovery; to my brother, Bill who was here; to Rosie my friend who is coming here from Connecticut today; to my nephew Tommy who, among other things, is arranging for my car to travel the rest of the journey in a truck; and to Catherine Meek whose kept in touch with me now and throughout my whole journey and to Matt Raab for calling as friendly voices from CA. during my hospital stay. I feel extremely privileged to have the love and care from these and many more including the readers to this blog.

As I was in the hospital and watched and listened, I thought of the thousands if not millions of people who are lying somewhere alone, frightened, and very sick and hurting. How great if we were moved to send a card or visit one unknown person where a smile or just quiet sitting would make a huge difference.

Before signing off, the number one state for helping homeless kids is: CONNECTICUT — Congratulations!

A must read as it is a current view September, 2010: ‘Homelessness among youth up 41 percent in the last two years.’ “… recently released a study that marks “unprecedented increases” in the number of homeless children and youth nationwide.”

Please join or support School on Wheels’ Upcoming 5K for our homeless kids happening in October.

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Today Is Your Day!

by Agnes on January 27, 2010

in California,The Trip

Today is your day!
You’re off to Great Places!
You’re off and away!

You have brains in your head
You have feet in your shoes
You can steer yourself
any direction you choose.

Your off to Great Places
Today is your day
Your mountain is waiting
So …. Get on your way!
- Dr. Seuss

Keep your energy coming – I will always be grateful for your support as we all live fully and open to the moment. Easier said than accomplished but definitely real when we choose to do so. A special thanks to Wayne Dyer’s message in Excuses Begone that gave me the heart to follow my dream.

I will be slowly leaving CA to give myself time to gather rest and set my pace. I will be on skid row for two days to say “good-bye” for a while to a very special place – each night I will be staying in Little Tokyo – another special place.

No more preparations, no more agendas – just living and learning and experiencing for me.

Dr. Seuss always seems to express easily what I want to say! His words are so happily to the point.

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“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.”
- Albert Einstein

Today I set my life up so that I take care of my daily life (and not so daily life) online – like bills, etc. I will be learning how to do this. Then I will learn how the DMV and Auto Club and Insurance and Tax “people” will correspond with me during my away time. It truly will be a miracle if I learn!

Each morning starts with a miracle – so, I plan to take a picture of the sunrise in every new city.

Everything else in life is already a miracle for me – really is. Being ready to leave and sharing this preparation with others is one example. Thank you to those special people who help consistently and to those who have sent me best of wishes along with very useful generous items and to all who threw the Bon Voyage party last week. Each of you are a miracle and through the miracle of the computer we will be in close touch.

As I write on my final preparations in leaving Malibu, I want to report on a large part of my journey as it relates to homelessness: The homeless population in Malibu is extremely small compared to other cities. The people of Malibu, the Churches, the Synagogue, Civic groups, and very much so, the youth through their schools, have reached out within the community and far beyond its borders to do what they can for families, kids, and adults who have no place to call their own. School on Wheels is a witness to their consistent generosity.

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Never Leave That Till Tomorrow…

by Agnes on January 25, 2010

in California,The Trip

“Never leave that till tomorrow which you can do today.”
- Benjamin Franklin

I woke up this morning wishing that I followed Franklin’s quote this past week! Instead, I stole the words right from the Olympic gold medalist volleyball player, Karch Kiraly, to get myself moving so all is done by Wednesday:

“…because the process is so long, so arduous, so challenging, that when it finally arrives, the adrenaline can’t help but take over…”

The adrenaline has taken me over today.

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Let Your Guard Down and Lean into Things

January 24, 2010

“Stay fully present, with open mind, open heart…” – Pema Chodron It is now time to start my journey with the above quote in mind as I go off to learn, laugh, and highlight those whose lives I enter and those who enter into my life. I am not sure what I am doing, but [...]

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Saying Goodbye to a Friend and to Old Memories

January 23, 2010

“Friendship is a sheltering tree.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson This morning I stopped to see my friend, Murray, at The Country Kitchen in Malibu. In 1993, SOW opened its first office between A & B Plumbing and The Country Kitchen – staying there until 1998. It was me, myself and I at the time of [...]

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Don’t Take Anything Personally

January 21, 2010

“When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.” – Don Miguel Ruiz As I am cleaning up my home, clearing my desk, deleting files on my computer, I realized errors I have made: unintentionally not responding to emails or forgetting to send letters or [...]

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Music Across America

January 21, 2010

I mentioned this in a previous entry, but below are the music suggestions that I asked friends and family to send me.   This will be the soundtrack for my Journey. Are You Experienced – Jimi Hendrix Haunted Heart – Charlie Haden Quartet West The Empire Strikes Back Original Soundtrack – John Williams Blue – Joni [...]

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Connecting in Starbucks

January 20, 2010

I never go to Starbucks as the size of cups are too large, coffee too strong. While waiting for my car and to get out of the rain I entered one today. Found out that you can get smaller cups and they even have hot chocolate. Three great moms sat down at my table and [...]

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Preparing For My Trip

January 18, 2010

“Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.” – Seneca Well, the decision has been made, people have been told, now all that’s left is the need to make preparations: how to cook my own food for a year, what to pack for a year, how to make it real for myself, how to [...]

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