From the monthly archives:

September 2010

Hold Up to Him His Better Self

by Agnes on September 25, 2010

in New Hampshire

“Hold up to him his better self, his real self that can dare and do and win out… People radiate what is in their minds and in their hearts.”
- Eleanor H. Porter (1868-1920) US novelist – author of “Pollyanna,” 1912

If you check out the theme of the book, Pollyanna, you will see that the main character, a little girl, accomplished remarkable changes in her aunt’s town. Pollyanna has always gotten a bad rap in the “real world” so when I spotted Eleanor Porter being from New Hampshire, I finally had a chance to ‘honor’ her in public. To me, this little girl that Eleanor wrote about also fits into the New Hampshire State motto of “Live Free or Die”.

Welcome to New London, NH

Welcome to New London, NH

Perkins’ Family Home, Little Sunapee Road

Perkins’ Family Home, Little Sunapee Road

Rosie and I arrived at the Lamplighters Motor Inn in New London. We would be having dinner with my sister-in-law’s brother James (Jim) Perkins, his wife Beth, and their children: Alden (High School) and Charlotte (Middle School). What a delightful, fun and intelligent family. This was my first time in meeting this truly energetic family. Everyone has interests outside their jobs including being students.

Beth is a teacher and over the years has had her classes collect and send school supplies to School on Wheels for our kids on skid row in Los Angeles. She, her family and all involved care and understand the role of education and how the simple basic materials are missing in the lives of homeless children – kindergarten through twelfth grade. Education allows one to live free!

I have met three moms in New Hampshire — and now know that with families like theirs, all is and will be well in New Hampshire for kids.

Amazingly, the Perkins live right next to ‘Old New London Village’ – please do check this site.

Each one in the family are involved in sharing with visitors the history. Rosie and I got a great tour thanks to Jim and his son Alden. They included showing us the Violin House where Charlotte plays the violin on special occasions during school tours.

Little Red School House

Little Red School House

Pick Your Desk

Pick Your Desk

Maybe in the future we can all meet at this diner as we continue our trip through New Hampshire:

Tumble Inn Diner

Tumble Inn Diner

Yes, I am still in Pennsylvania checking out Pittston and other small towns and taking care of business.

Sunrise over Pennsylvania

Sunrise over Pennsylvania

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Live Free or Die

by Agnes on September 24, 2010

in New Hampshire

“Live Free or Die”
- New Hampshire State Motto

I love the words and do realize how these words, seemingly very clear, can have different interpretations for each person.

Awe-inspiring State!

Awe-inspiring State!

Rosie and I drove on to New Hampshire from Vermont. New Hampshire, like every state has its own beauty, spirit and vibes. We drove on smaller back roads which made the ride even more pleasant and stupendous in many ways.

Beauty!

Beauty!

Covered Bridge

Covered Bridge

To all at School on Wheels in Los Angeles, we visited with Neda Mashouf, a former volunteer tutor! Neda was a consistent volunteer to our ‘old’ Downtown Learning Center in Skid Row. Her coordinator at that time was Esteban who I just visited in Brooklyn, New York. He always speaks highly of Neda’s generosity and her understanding of the kids and their needs. Her present support of School on Wheels reflects a deep value of seeing education as the avenue out of poverty and homelessness for the hundreds plus more children and teens in our program. I was so happy to meet Neda.

Even though I am not an artist, I am the biggest fan of music, art, dance — all creativity. With Neda, it is just there – in her and all around her including the Village of Meriden.

Meriden, New Hampshire

Meriden, New Hampshire

Plainfield is a town in Sullivan County, NH and includes the Village of Meriden, home of Kimball Union Academy. Plainfield is also home to the Helen Woodruff Smith Bird Sanctuary and Annie Duncan State Forest.

Here are links to websites on New Hampshire:

New Hampshire ranks #2 in helping homeless children in their state! How wonderful is that – yet, at the same time how sad we have any homeless children in the country.

It is only fitting that New Hampshire ranks high in helping kids. Neda introduced Rosie and I to her friend, Lynn, who is also her child’s teacher. As I listened to a very stimulating conversation, I witnessed two strong advocates, not only for their own children, but for all students. These two moms, not only talk about caring, but go the extra mile in expanding kids’ hearts and understanding.

The one thing I am certain from this trip, I will be returning to visit New England and hope again to pass through the Village of Meriden.

From there, we started to drive toward Claremont when a blinding rain storm popped up out of nowhere! Rosie is an excellent driver and was quite calm and confident as we drove along not able to have the consistent help of windshield wipers. (Rosie taught me how to drive years ago and that evening proved she was an excellent teacher). We finally found out way to Claremont and spotted an American Legion Center. A couple (our peer group age) – suggested where to stay and led us to an place called ‘The ‘Common Man Inn’.

Hard to See

Hard to See

As I write this, I am now in Scranton, PA and in a couple of days will be on my way to visit two grand-nieces in Carlisle and University City. My drive from Fishkill, New York to here – along I-84 West was gorgeous! Trees all around and beyond were turning or had turned colors. I felt very nostalgic and sentimental as I drove along this magical road. I have not seen this in years and years and more years. Interestingly enough, the temperature was not crisp – we are in our 80s here. I had not expected to witness this as most trees had not started to turn while I was in Vermont and New Hampshire.

I will write more on my New Hampshire visit as we drove on to meet relatives for the first time in New London, NH.

Rainbow in Claremont

Rainbow in Claremont

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We Are Dedicated to Excellence

by Agnes on September 22, 2010

in Vermont

“… We are dedicated to excellence in our work to improve the health and quality of life for all.”
- Delores Barbeau, M.D.

A couple or so weeks ago, I stayed with a group of friends in Vermont. Three of us knew each other since we were seventeen years old; the other two women, who I now consider friends, live in Weston, Vermont. Also visiting was Tony (a writer with an interesting background – see below).

Where we stayed

Where we stayed

Monks’ Chapel

Monks’ Chapel

Rosie, Mary and I drove up to Vermont from Connecticut. For me, the beauty surrounding us was close to overwhelming. We were grateful and fortunate enough to have the use of a guest house on the grounds of The Benedictine Monks of Weston Priory.

As I took my walk each morning at the crack of dawn, I noticed something missing. I stopped and listened and heard no birds. I had forgotten birds travel south when the cold weather comes. The stillness each morning is indescribable — the tallness of the trees, blocked the full sunrise — the glimmer through the branches was enough for me.

Morning Sun

Morning Sun

My time spent here has left a lasting mark in me and my deep thanks to each person. I could write much, but prefer to offer some connecting links. Mary is from Washington DC and among other things belongs to the Truth Speakers Program of TASSC. The mission of this organization is to speak out against all forms of torture worldwide and to empower survivors, their families and communities. Mary has her own personal story of torture and survival during the Banzer regime in Bolivia in the 1970s. I asked Mary what she would like to say to readers of my blog. Her immediate response was: The atmosphere in the 60s and 70s was Americans being shocked with anyone in the world being tortured and today’s atmosphere in the USA is one of discussion with pros and cons. I am paraphrasing as I did not write down her exact words but I do know the words are her thoughts – rightly so.

My view: we are allowing ourselves to become so divided in America, putting our values aside for the sake of appearing right and taking sides. As I have said before in the blog, all of us better be careful before we lose what made us great.

Rosie is from Windsor Connecticut and in her earlier years has served the people in Nepal and has worked many years for the human rights of farm workers in California. Rosie has been teaching yoga for now in Windsor – the people there are lucky as no one could have a better yoga teacher.

Delores and Carol have created, with others, a nonprofit organization called: ‘Neighborhood Connections, VT’. Both Delores and Carol, in earlier times, have worked with the people in Bolivia in the medical field for years – their personal stories, survival and experiences in Bolivia are also very compelling. Their service now in Vermont is not only of great value and hugely needed in these critical economic times but for the long term needs of people in the area. From their website: “We are a nonprofit organization offering preventive health care, health education and social services. We proudly serve the communities of Londonderry, South Londonderry, Weston, Chester, Andover, Windham, Winhall, Jamaica, Landgrove, and Peru.” Check their ‘wish list’.

Communities Nesting in the Mountains

Communities Nesting in the Mountains

What I like about ‘Neighborhood Connections, VT’ — it is exactly what a major part of the assistance is: connecting, partnering, and PREVENTION. This is the key to meeting needs now and before the need happens. Below are some links to learn more about Vermont:

Information

Information

Vermont has an overall ranking of 10. This is excellent as long as endeavors grow in proportion to the ever increasing numbers of homeless families in Vermont as expressed by HUD. These numbers have increased in the last two years.

Through my friends I met Tony Equale — my observations and conversations found Tony to be extremely intelligent and equally a good person. Tony’s request to my blog readers is to take a look at his books and if you find interesting “please buy”. I am happy to send this message on:

Beauty along the Way

Beauty along the Way

On our drive to Vermont, Rosie stopped for a woman who was ‘hitchhiking’ – something you can do in this friendly town. She was returning home from visiting her brother. In talking with her, Lois was born and raised in Weston and other nearby towns. Schools were not the greatest in those days and her education only went to fourth grade. At this time in her life, she is able to continue from that grade onward. A teacher visits her once a week. Division is her hardest subject. We all encouraged her to memorize ‘those’ times tables as that will make division easier. Well, her enthusiasm and hard work made my day and I will think of Lois often as she pursues her studies.

Lois

Lois

I had a great time in Vermont – a real learning experience mixed with much fun and laughter from four strong women who I am honored to know! Carol and Delores have that wonderful gift of making everyone welcome including the people in Weston and surrounding towns.

Stay Connected!

Stay Connected!

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There is nothing like walking

by Agnes on September 20, 2010

in New York

“There is nothing like walking to get the feel of a country. … Even a bicycle goes too fast.”
- Paul Scott Mowrer (1887- April 7, 1971)

Welcome to Fishkill, Dutchess County, New York!

My quote today is in ‘honor’ of a young woman, Shauna, who I met in Fishkill where I am staying. She is planning to move to Brooklyn, New York where the city looks ‘human’ with all the trees, parks and old buildings and where there is public transportation. She was very sure and definite that for her, ‘walking’ is the way to go in today’s world of the madness of speed, cars, and gridlock. I stand with her!

Another way to Travel

Another way to Travel

The Pougkeepsie Journal, Sunday, 9-19-10 printed an article by Calum MacLeod, USA Today on ‘Sharing the road in China’. The article is on meeting the ever increasing needs of drivers as people are buying more and more cars. Pedestrians are also targeted and encouraged to stop jay walking and crossing streets when the light is red for them. Many times cash rewards are given for simply obeying the ‘walking’ rules.

Not Obeying Rules in NY

Not Obeying Rules in NY

Yacht Seized for Child Support Funds

Yacht Seized for Child Support Funds

As I leave New York State and move on to Pennsylvania in the days to come, I am sharing a report on “Ending Homelessness in Dutchess County”. Their “Ten Year Plan” document is excellent material on how a County that is comparatively speaking well off financially, has recognized and not forgotten the ever increasing number of homeless. Pages seven and eight are helpful in defining who they are speaking of and how to assist and when not to assist. Dutchess County, New York.

When I came across the report, I decided to focus only on this for my blog and to leave out most of the other sites on New York State. For those of you interested in learning how counties plan to meet the needs of homelessness across America, you will not be disappointed. I hope you will have time to read and ponder. Below are some excerpts:

“Dutchess County is largely an economically vibrant community. The medianhousehold income is significantly higher than that of the rest of New York State, and the fraction of persons living below the poverty line is 8.7 percent—significantly less than the 13.8 percent poverty rate experienced throughout the rest of the state.”

“Still, the affluence realized in some areas is not found throughout the County. The poverty rate in the County’s primary urban center, Poughkeepsie, has reached nearly 20 percent—that is, one in five residents are living in poverty. In addition, pockets of rural poverty dot the countryside, providing a study of contrasts between the stately affluence and generational poverty that are experienced in neighboring communities.”

“According to data from the 2008 Dutchess County Rental Housing Study, a Dutchess County household would need to earn approximately $52,160 annually to afford rent on an average two-bedroom apartment in a multi-family unit.”

“…Many homeless youths do not consider themselves as such and are reluctant to access formal support services. Instead this population relies on an underground network of young people, utilizing survival tactics such as the exchange of sex, drugs and food for housing. Gaining access to, engaging with, and serving this vulnerable population is critical for ensuring an end to the cycle of homelessness.”

Resting in New Rochelle Harbor

Resting in New Rochelle Harbor

In New Rochelle, before arriving here, I had lunch with five energetic, interesting and above all, fun, women who I attended high school with some years ago. Having this time with them before starting my journey home to California meant much to me. Not enough adjectives could describe our time together except one adjective for me for NOT TAKING my friends’ picture… I was so happy to visit with you – I forgot to take a picture for our blog readers to see your smiling faces!

Lunch with my friends

Lunch with my friends

I was in gas stations in both New Rochelle and Fishkill where I noticed the cigarettes behind the counter: over $10.00 a pack; and those on sale were over $8.00. What drew my attention to the cigarettes in the first place (as I have not smoked now in several years) was the very large posted sign by them stating the cost.) A gentleman in front of me ordered a pack and paid by credit card. I have certainly been out of the main stream in not noticing the rise in price. Yes, I am lucky to be a non-smoker as I am sure I would also find a way to pay if I was still addicted – but then again, maybe I would have stopped sooner if I had to pay these prices.

On a more pleasant note, the temperature in both New Rochelle and here in Fishkill is in the high 70s and mid 80s! Good-bye New York State and as Frank Sinatra would say: “Thanks for the Memories” – very beautiful memories.

New Rochelle Harbor

New Rochelle Harbor

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Live in the Sunshine

September 17, 2010

“Live in the sunshine, swim the sea, drink the wild air…” – Ralph Waldo Emerson, US essayist & poet (1803 – 1882) With all due respect to Emerson, I add these words to his quote: “Live in love, walk the earth, drink the wild laughter and joy of each…along the way” So now the total [...]

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Educate Kids

September 14, 2010

“Educate Kids – Empower Families – End Homelessness” – School on Wheels Massachusetts With my friend Rosie from Connecticut, I arrived in Vermont where I had a separation from my cell phone and netbook. So I am catching up on my blogs before touching on my beautiful stay there. A week ago, I arrived in [...]

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Johnny Appleseed Swept On

September 10, 2010

…Johnny Appleseed swept on, Every shackle gone, Loving every sloshy brake, Loving every skunk and snake, Loving every leathery weed, Johnny Appleseed, Johnny Appleseed “The picture of a raggedy man with a pot on his head walking barefoot as he scattered seeds may first spring to mind at the mention of Johnny Appleseed. Yet Johnny [...]

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At School on Wheels

September 8, 2010

“At School on Wheels, we know that when people come together as a committed community, we can tackle the challenges of helping homeless children and their education.” – Catherine Meek, Executive Director – School On Wheels, Inc. 2/2010 newsletter CONGRATULATIONS on this very special day of the ‘Grand Opening’ of the Downtown Learning Center in [...]

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Goodbye Newport

September 8, 2010

“Goodbye Newport …” – Agnes I have taken close to a thousand pictures in Newport, Tiverton, Goat Island and Little Compton. Many were of places we lived, went to school or ‘played’. Below are a few memories for me – the swing was one that all of us swung on as kids when we spent [...]

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At the Beach, Life is Different

September 3, 2010

“At the beach, life is different. Time doesn’t move hour to hour but mood to moment. We live by the currents, plan by the tides, and follow the sun.” – Anonymous As soon as we met, my two brothers and I went off together to the Cliff Walk; Ocean Drive; and through the narrow streets [...]

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