From the monthly archives:

May 2010

Be Sure You Give

by Agnes on May 28, 2010

in Alabama

“Be sure you give yourself sometime to enjoy, remember and renew.”
- Agnes

I plan to send my mind on vacation and just enjoy each moment of this wonderful weekend to ‘walk with the ducks’ and sit in a ‘rose garden’. I will take pictures of these if I find the area.

Alabama

Alabama

Hello from Alabama! I am taking three days from everything, even writing my blog which I love to do, but will catch up with everyone next week.

Most the way to Alabama, I drove on Highway 90 which is a little like Route 66. I saw much of the little towns and parts of Mobile. The highlight of my drive was crossing the Causeway Bridge – I also went under the Bankhead Tunnel.

My hope for all of you and actually for everyone in the country is that each person can rest their minds and renew their spirit at least for five complete minutes and ideally for three days to enjoy the moments with those you care for or with those you will just meet and most of all with nature in all forms.

Happy Weekend, everyone!

Beauty

Beauty

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“I’m worried about all the people in New Orleans.”
- Fats Domino – one of the biggest promoters of the New Orleans Rhythm & Blues Style… recently celebrated his 86th birthday. (Fats Domino on YouTube)

Morning Sun

Morning Sun

Louisiana has a State Ranking of ‘46’ in regard to homeless children in the state according to the Louisiana State Report

What jumped out at me were these high numbers: (a large increase due to Katrina) Of the 300,000 children living in poverty in Louisiana, 68 out of every one hundred (68%) are homeless.

Age and Race/ Ethnicity: Sixty-nine percent of Louisiana’s children living in families with incomes below the poverty level are Black, non-Hispanic, 28% are White, non-Hispanic, and two percent are Hispanic.

An overview and perspective on these state reports is worth reading if you are following child homelessness across the country.

I met a woman today near Ocean Springs, MS, who was in her fifties and was on the verge of tears after I simply made a warm greeting. She is so upset in regard to the oil and said: “What are we going to do? It is so terrible.” She went on to say that her son works for BP and his job involves underwater danger every day. She is sick with worry over his work as what he is doing now is not safe. She is feeling for everyone, especially the fishermen.

I met a man in his sixties who with five friends were biking to Key West, Florida and then onto Alaska to raise money for Kids’ Charities.

Lead Rider

Lead Rider

And then there was Beverly in La Place, LA who was more my peer group age and would like my car. I certainly understand as she says she doesn’t have a car, not even a bike and would like to drive to some other place. We talked about the cost of apartments or rooms in Los Angeles and I answered her questions about the cost of gas, food, clothes. Beverly had a nice sense of humor; her wish was very real but in her eyes her reality is working against her. As always, I told her to keep what she wants for herself in her mind – do not give up on her dreams but be clear what they are. I liked talking with her – she had a lot of wisdom of her own.

Small Casino

Small Casino

A positive note to leave Louisiana with is the work of Brother Joe and the whole team in New Orleans who work with young people in nine month programs. If you have time to read only one link, I hope you will choose this one: http://reconcileneworleans.org.

If you go to New Orleans be sure to go to the cafe for a meal. For some reason, this gives me much hope and an uplift that every day to know this is happening in a city still suffering from Katrina; going through another tragedy and for these young adults, poverty and gangs surround them as they take steps to direct their own lives. This is huge because it is not just the young people but all who they will influence including their own children right on down the line.

Cajun – a noun: A Louisianan descended from Acadian immigrants from Nova Scotia (‘Cajun’ comes from ‘Acadian’).

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It Just Makes You Stronger

by Agnes on May 25, 2010

in Louisiana

“Sometimes when you have let go, it doesn’t make you weak; it just makes you stronger. If you had the choice to be weak or strong, which would you want to be?”
- Written in 2006 by Chelsea C., Age 14

I love this quote as to me it speaks for the lives of Louisianans who over the last several years have experienced letting go as individuals and as a people. Right now the tragedy hanging over them is like a drip-drip of bad news every day with no end in sight.

Louisiana Skies

Louisiana Skies

People love their state and living here. One example is a young woman in her late twenties who said to me with delight, “I love living in Louisiana!” She went on to say that after graduating from high school she moved to Richmond, Virginia but soon wanted to return. Richmond was beautiful and it is where she saw snow for the first time. The snow was pretty but the cold was too much and she missed home. “I love fish and I could eat fish all day long.” She is so afraid that the fishing industry will collapse in Louisiana. She will always remain here although what is happening now is all so sad to her.

What jumped out at me was the Pelican being the state bird and the picture in the papers of Pelicans soaked in oil.

Huddle House

Huddle House

Every state I pass through, I take on as being ‘my state’ and am now always interested in its issues. Today’s USA – May 25th – had an opinion article on the new law signed by the Conservative Texas State Text Book Board that now allows their history books to be rewritten for kindergarteners through twelfth grade to fit what they want their children to think regardless of the truth of history or of the constitution.

There is another article in regard to some of the side effects that are huge due to the new law in Arizona that allows anyone that looks like an immigrant to be stopped, questioned and show proof of papers. This perception is awakening fear in schools where fewer and fewer parents are showing up for teacher conferences; fewer and fewer people are going to the larger stores like Wal-Mart — and most detrimental to the state is the large numbers refusing to comply with the census. Fear – founded or not – seems to rule at times like these.

More Skies

More Skies

Vanessa Blanc: born in Gretna, came to the USA after the earthquake, just graduated from high school and says of New Orleans:

“I love the people and the food and the weather’s not too bad. And despite everything that happened, I haven’t really had a bad day since I came here.”

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“Books were my pass to personal freedom. I learned to read at age three, and soon discovered there was a whole world to conquer that went beyond our farm in Mississippi.”
- Oprah Winfrey

Mississippi Morning

Mississippi Morning

Oprah was born in Kosciusko, Mississippi and stayed on her grandmother’s farm the first six years of her life. It was her grandmother who taught her how to read at such an early age. Far be it from me to describe life in Mississippi where there is so much available and in her own words. What I can say is that Oprah (in my opinion) has never lost the charm, beauty and friendliness that I see in almost everyone I have met in Mississippi.

“My philosophy is that not only are you responsible for your life, but doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment…”
- Oprah Winfrey

As Oprah is a former resident of Mississippi, I met a fairly new resident to Mississippi who lives the above quote. This young woman’s name is Felicia – she works long hours for very low wages. I will say she reflects that Mississippi charm and friendliness and, as so many, easily expresses how God is with her – not in a ‘preachy’ way – just in an ‘is’ way.

Felicia lived many years in San Diego, California and loved the city. Her eyes sparkle when she talks about the city. When married she moved to Albuquerque, New Mexico and it was there that her husband realized he needed to return to his home state Mississippi to raise his two sons. Felicia said, “A father needs to be a father to his sons”. So her life now is in Mississippi. Without having a doubt that the move was right, she is still open in expressing how difficult it is, how very different a life for her in every possible way. She always remembers when her husband drove her to a small parking lot with a few stores and said this is ‘downtown’. The weather all year has its challenges for her as well as her work that pays so little. Besides her husband and new family, her one great solace is the friendliness of the people.

Felicia has certain hopes – wishes that she keeps in her mind always and says she prays on it every day. Mississippi Minimum Wage Rates

The link below is extremely informative to me as I pass through states and see so much poverty. An interesting map to study and come to your own conclusions: http://www.dol.gov/whd/minwage/america.htm. My wish for Mississippi, at this moment, is that the oil spill will not come to their shores which right now is a real threat hanging over the people.

Goodbye Mississippi

Goodbye Mississippi

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The Whole Secret of Life

May 21, 2010

“The whole secret of life is to be interested in one thing profoundly and in a thousand things well.” – Horace Walpole I have no idea if Walpole is correct or not. I do know that I hear too often from young people in their teens, twenties and even thirties state of ‘how bored’ they [...]

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If You Can See Things Out of Whack

May 19, 2010

“If you can see things out of whack, then you can see how things can be in whack.” – Dr. Seuss Hello, from McComb, MS. Before arriving here, I spent four days in Ridgeland, MS to get back in whack from the same pollen attack I had in Oklahoma. My time in Ridgefield was uneventful [...]

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Don’t Say the Old Lady Screamed

May 14, 2010

“Don’t say the old lady screamed. Bring her on and let her scream.” – Mark Twain In Ridgefield I did not have to get to that point thanks to the truly generosity of spirit in a young woman, Tina. Tina was at the desk at the Marriott and this would be my fourth stop along [...]

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I Am Always Willing to Learn

May 14, 2010

“I am always willing to learn, however I do not always like to be taught.” – Winston Churchill In my blog today, I am giving everyone the opportunity to do their own learning by these great websites. Those really interested in the south will learn much. Yes, I am in Grenada Mississippi and look forward [...]

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Seemingly Opposite Avenues

May 12, 2010

“Two men’s lives marked History in Memphis, TN, in our country and throughout the world. The words below describe the essence of their life mission although taking seemingly opposite avenues in doing so.” – Agnes “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that; Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” [...]

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There Was No Guarantee

May 11, 2010

“There was no guarantee of opportunity when they graduated. But still, with hope in their hearts and faith in their God-given potential, they came here anyway. They came to do the only thing they could and that was to learn. So let’s just imagine how those seven students would feel if they could see all [...]

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