From the monthly archives:

January 2010

Pick the Day. Enjoy It – To the Hilt

by Agnes on January 31, 2010

in California

“Pick the day. Enjoy it – to the hilt. The day as it comes. People as they come… The past, I think, has helped me appreciate the present – and I don’t want to spoil any of it by fretting about the future.”
- Audrey Hepburn

Maryknoll Sisters in Monrovia, CA

Maryknoll Sisters in Monrovia, CA

I spent Friday evening to Sunday morning to be with forty very strong amazing women – the Maryknoll Sisters In Monrovia, CA. These Sisters have spent their lives for the most part in other countries around the world and are now retired in their sense of the word retired. Many are volunteering for other organizations that feed the homeless or run food banks, tutor students, visit those who are alone and need assistance, and the list goes on…

Maryknoll is the past that has helped me and certainly demonstrates what Audrey Hepburn says. I especially went to see two women who I was with as we entered Maryknoll in 1953. In highlighting Mary and Rosemary, I highlight all the sisters presently in Maryknoll.

Maryknoll in Monrovia, CA

Maryknoll in Monrovia, CA

“Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile.”
- Albert Einstein

Mary was in the Navy for several years before entering Maryknoll and from that time she has “given to others” in Bolivia, Peru, and Venezuela and now volunteers to visit faithfully a woman who is alone and needs assistance.

Rosemary was a hospital administrator when she came to Maryknoll and from that time she was in Korea for four years, Indonesia for twenty-two years, and Nepal for about seven years and presently she is co-coordinating the Maryknoll complex in Monrovia. I entered Maryknoll at age 17 and from there became a teacher and taught in the cities of New York, Chicago, and in Little Tokyo in Los Angeles before leaving Maryknoll 18 years later.

Here is the sunrise in Monrovia as I left Sunday morning to drive to Indio.

Sunrise over Monrovia, CA

Sunrise over Monrovia, CA

This was a big test day for me as I took the 10 freeway to Indio. It was the first time I was on the freeway in twenty years as I like to drive the surface streets in the Los Angeles area and beyond. Yes, I was tense at first, then became relaxed and assured – not too different than the PCH on busy days. And like the PCH, I will always be alert!

The freeway really needs a little fixing with stronger white dividing lines and less potholes from El Monte where I entered the freeway to almost to Palm Springs. I am not sure how they decide who and when that is done.

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Have a Good Cry, Wash Out Your Heart

by Agnes on January 29, 2010

in California

“Have a good cry, wash out your heart.
If you keep it inside it’ll tear you apart.”
- Dr. Hook.

No words from me can express this except the tears in my eyes – they touch something very deep inside. It has very much to do with each of you, my friends and family, and some very special people in my life.

The following pictures are from our Skid Row Learning Center where a group of teenagers from the Valley came to share time with our kids and became aware of another world.

A volunteer drawing Spongebob for some students

A volunteer drawing Spongebob for some students

Donated backpacks at School on Wheels

Donated backpacks at School on Wheels

Tears of joy are like the summer raindrops pierced by sunbeans.
- Hosea Ballou

Los Angeles at night  from my hotel room

Los Angeles at night from my hotel room

Sunrise over Los Angeles

Sunrise over Los Angeles

A Garden in Little Tokyo

A Garden in Little Tokyo

In leaving Los Angeles, I use Agatha Christie’s words which express the feelings in the air for so many people from Malibu to Skid Row.

“I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know quite certainty that just to be alive is a grand thing.”

Ready to Go

Ready to Go!

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Today Is Your Day!

by Agnes on January 27, 2010

in California,The Trip

Today is your day!
You’re off to Great Places!
You’re off and away!

You have brains in your head
You have feet in your shoes
You can steer yourself
any direction you choose.

Your off to Great Places
Today is your day
Your mountain is waiting
So …. Get on your way!
- Dr. Seuss

Keep your energy coming – I will always be grateful for your support as we all live fully and open to the moment. Easier said than accomplished but definitely real when we choose to do so. A special thanks to Wayne Dyer’s message in Excuses Begone that gave me the heart to follow my dream.

I will be slowly leaving CA to give myself time to gather rest and set my pace. I will be on skid row for two days to say “good-bye” for a while to a very special place – each night I will be staying in Little Tokyo – another special place.

No more preparations, no more agendas – just living and learning and experiencing for me.

Dr. Seuss always seems to express easily what I want to say! His words are so happily to the point.

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“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.”
- Albert Einstein

Today I set my life up so that I take care of my daily life (and not so daily life) online – like bills, etc. I will be learning how to do this. Then I will learn how the DMV and Auto Club and Insurance and Tax “people” will correspond with me during my away time. It truly will be a miracle if I learn!

Each morning starts with a miracle – so, I plan to take a picture of the sunrise in every new city.

Everything else in life is already a miracle for me – really is. Being ready to leave and sharing this preparation with others is one example. Thank you to those special people who help consistently and to those who have sent me best of wishes along with very useful generous items and to all who threw the Bon Voyage party last week. Each of you are a miracle and through the miracle of the computer we will be in close touch.

As I write on my final preparations in leaving Malibu, I want to report on a large part of my journey as it relates to homelessness: The homeless population in Malibu is extremely small compared to other cities. The people of Malibu, the Churches, the Synagogue, Civic groups, and very much so, the youth through their schools, have reached out within the community and far beyond its borders to do what they can for families, kids, and adults who have no place to call their own. School on Wheels is a witness to their consistent generosity.

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Never Leave That Till Tomorrow…

January 25, 2010

“Never leave that till tomorrow which you can do today.” – Benjamin Franklin I woke up this morning wishing that I followed Franklin’s quote this past week! Instead, I stole the words right from the Olympic gold medalist volleyball player, Karch Kiraly, to get myself moving so all is done by Wednesday: “…because the process [...]

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Let Your Guard Down and Lean into Things

January 24, 2010

“Stay fully present, with open mind, open heart…” – Pema Chodron It is now time to start my journey with the above quote in mind as I go off to learn, laugh, and highlight those whose lives I enter and those who enter into my life. I am not sure what I am doing, but [...]

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Saying Goodbye to a Friend and to Old Memories

January 23, 2010

“Friendship is a sheltering tree.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson This morning I stopped to see my friend, Murray, at The Country Kitchen in Malibu. In 1993, SOW opened its first office between A & B Plumbing and The Country Kitchen – staying there until 1998. It was me, myself and I at the time of [...]

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Don’t Take Anything Personally

January 21, 2010

“When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.” – Don Miguel Ruiz As I am cleaning up my home, clearing my desk, deleting files on my computer, I realized errors I have made: unintentionally not responding to emails or forgetting to send letters or [...]

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Music Across America

January 21, 2010

I mentioned this in a previous entry, but below are the music suggestions that I asked friends and family to send me.   This will be the soundtrack for my Journey. Are You Experienced – Jimi Hendrix Haunted Heart – Charlie Haden Quartet West The Empire Strikes Back Original Soundtrack – John Williams Blue – Joni [...]

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Connecting in Starbucks

January 20, 2010

I never go to Starbucks as the size of cups are too large, coffee too strong. While waiting for my car and to get out of the rain I entered one today. Found out that you can get smaller cups and they even have hot chocolate. Three great moms sat down at my table and [...]

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